Chủ Nhật, 6 tháng 8, 2006

You and Others.

People come into your life for a reason,
a season, or
a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do (*_*).


When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you
through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and
they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be there with you.
Then without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or
act out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When peole come into your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow , or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for season.

Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (any way); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. And when friends love, their eyes are open.

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Bie^'u mo.i ngu+o+`i va`o tha(m ma.ng CVA.
Tha^n,
BN.




6 nhận xét:

Domluahong nói...

cam on BN---sooo true!

"Sometimes some of God's Greatest Blessings are unanswerred prayers!"

w/love,
dlh

BNTonnu nói...

Amen, my very dear DLH.
BN mong duoc tro thanh a lifetime friend cua DLH nha.

With love.
BN.

hoalai nói...

BN,

hl cung~ rat' la` dong` y', Gap. go*~ nhau trong doi` song' la` cai' duyen.
Duyen het' thi` di, Va` neu' con` thi` se~ la` cua? nhau den' bac. dau`. (ca? tinh` ban. lan~ tinh` yeu).

cam' on BN

Domluahong nói...

yup yup,dlh gio* 2 tay la^~n 2 cha^n...HL very ddu'ng 2!!!

BN oi, mi`nh pha?i ca?m o*n the Blog dda~ la` no*i mi`nh dduo*.c he.n ho` nhau!!! Tuy nhien, ne^'u ho^ng co' leader HD, Hoa La`i va` DKG thi` dlh ma^`n sao zo^ dduo*.c Blog de^~ thuo*ng na`y!!!
ti? cheeeeeeeeeeeers!
dlh
wi' we^n, ca'm o*n ca? ma't to* VD nu*~a chu*'!!!

Ðồ Lãng Xẹt nói...

Dear Uncle DLH:

Hu hu, it's not fair, you "cho mee ra de" because Xet not see his name in your ...short list, causing him a crisis! Peace: (*_*)

Xet might not be that hot
But forget me (Xẹt) not!
Hay cần tui lên dây cót
Ðể tui còn nịnh nọt!

In Vietnamese:

Kính thưa Bác DLH:

Xẹt tui thấy đời xẹt lửa vì thấy mình bị Lãng Quên, nên phải rên lên vài lời:

Xẹt không ngon như trái ớt,
Nhưng bị quơn, Xẹt chớt!

He he he! Chào Pác.

ÐLX

Domluahong nói...

Ddia ro*'t cu. Xe.t!

Ddo.c tho* cu. Xe.t, dlh cuo*`i rinh ri'ch, dduo*.c o*'t la` 1 ddie^`u hoan hi?. Ta. to^.i tha^'t le^~, dlh xin mo*`i cu. xe.t ly che` ma.n sen va` 1 phong ba'nh dda^.u xanh!
:)
Cu. la~ng xe.t ddu*`ng re^n
dda^u pha?i (ddo^`)la~ng que^n
ddo^'m (lh) ghi ta^m dde^? bu.ng
da`nh ghe^' cu. xe.t "ngo*i" !

hi'hi', baaa'i!
dlh